10 SIGNS IT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP IT IS A SEX MATE.

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Justice

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10 SIGNS IT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP IT IS A SEX MATE.

from Justice on 09/22/2013 12:14 PM

1.Anytime you see each other it is only to have sex: So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.

2.Only comes over at night: They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.

3.Doesn't want to go out anywhere : Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex

4.Never talks about family and friends : Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.It is not a concern about your relationship with your siblings  or your family no affcetion for them in this case there is no concern for each other these is a pure sign of a sex mate.

5.Sexy phone caall and Sms o you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.Always demanding that you dress nude or send send nude pics as messages . this is really dangerous to the afftection in the relationship , sincere friends talk something more deep than this.

6. Meeting only where sex can take place nly going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.No time for fun time or a quiet place to talk to each other .Friends most times need to be in cool places to share their affection for one another but if your visits is regulary in hotels or apartments be mindful it might just be your sex mate.
7. You don't eat together; this is also one of the things sex mates do not in common. they do not mind walking you out right after you have satisfied them sexually.
8. Avvoiding each other in public :You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away.They lack passion for you so they feel you will not represent them in public they always play cool when you meet in public .They feel you are not their type so you are only their for the wrong purpose  It’s Just Sex.
9.No time always; Always saying I am busy with work, with school or whatever. No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.So that both of you can be with one another.
10.There is no care :If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.

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