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Animals do pray also

from admin on 12/24/2013 03:43 PM












The only way evil  people prevail is when the good people do nothing

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Poem for Nelson Madiba Mandela

from admin on 12/24/2013 03:31 PM


Remarkable! You not only existed, you truly lived
Blessed
generations to be endowed with peaceful deeds
True
greatness is never lost across all times
Through
the rough of it all the peace bell still chimed
We walk
every day in the shadows of oppression
Weakness
of heart you tied down in joyous suppression
They called you Rolihlahla in
tribal symbolism
And what a good trouble you
brought us in true nationalism
You troubled the trouble to
breed precise humility
You broke the back of
oppression with crystal simplicity
Our heavy hearts rewind to your
remarkable African-ness
All the dark faces have been
shown the truest kindness
It’s remarkable the inspiration
wasn’t foreign
You twined the mind and heart
in a consistent run
We could have picked up guns
and spears
But Madiba’s emerged to
simplify our fears
We’ve always been trampled on
for so much a time
We’ve absorbed immorality and
divine crime
But darkness and hatred is what
you despised
27 you weathered so simply with
no hate inside
Who knew hatred is weakness
presented as spite?
You’ve shown that spite and
hatred is a weakness desire
Who now talks fondly of your
jailors except the stinky mire
Values and virtues the true
height and driver of civilizations
If only they become the light
for every nation
You’ve shown with remarkable
fervor their validity
The African Self is a box full
of values quiddity
The ingenious tradition and
African-ness unmatched
Generations will smile-in
Madiba’s life from scratch
Forgiveness always is what
you’ve forever sown
Humility in deeds is what we’ve
come to know
Race is only a concept if not
an intellectual quest
Madiba, you’re gone but we’re
left with a clean path, I guess
Why should we cry when your
humility is here?
Why would we mourn when your
deeds I hear?
We’ve not built rockets and
cars
But Mandela has been ours
You can go now, Madiba!
The life you lived is the way
the world should be!

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Skeleton Coast in Africa

from kingjohn on 12/13/2013 10:50 PM

 Namibia’s Khoisan speak of the land God made in anger.

From the air, the bleak shoreline of the Skeleton Coast looks wonderful — a deep green sea, fringed with surf, breaks over a shore receding into infinite dunes.

From land, it’s a different story.

The Benguela Current rushes in, urgent and strong, hurtling the chilling Atlantic into the fierce heat of the Namib.

Whale and seal skeletons from the former whaling industry still litter the coastline — the source of the region’s frightening name.

Humans have suffered, too — the remains of ships wrecked on the hidden rocks offshore rust and crumble beside the animal bones.

Survivors didn’t last long in this harsh environment.

Punishing Trip?

Why, then, visit this brutal-sounding place?

Because its forbidding nature has left Namibia’s Skeleton Coast one of the most pristine shorelines in the world.

It may be bleak, but it’s beautiful.

The territory extends from just north of the city of Swakopmund to the Angolan border in northwest Namibia, taking in 500 kilometers of shoreline and 2 million hectares of dunes and gravel plains.

It forms a national park, divided by rivers.

The southern section runs between the Ugab and Hoanib Rivers, the north between the Hoanib and Kunene.

Independent travelers can apply for permits for day trips but only to the south — and it’s the northern extremes, the Skeleton Coast Wilderness, that most people want to see.

Visitors to the latter part of the park are restricted to around 800 a year to preserve the fragile environment.

Exclusive And Expensive

The only way to reach the north is to join a fly-in safari — an exclusive, if expensive, experience.

A typical four-day trip costs around $6,000 per person.

After flying to an inland camp, my guide, Bariar, and I reach the sea following a 200-kilometer drive through dune country.

We climb out of the Land Rover into a huge animal graveyard: seal skulls jumbled with turtles’ rib cages and the colossal, bleached vertebrae of whales.

The wind shunts me from one set of remains to the next.

One ghoulish question suggests itself: “Are there human skeletons, too?”

“Of course!” Bariar shouts, his voice almost lost in the wind.

“It’s the shore of a thousand shipwrecks.”

Wreck-Spotting

Skeleton Coast Namibia photo

Namibia’s Skeleton Coast

One of the coast’s best-known wrecks is a British liner, the Dunedin Star, beached by her master after hitting a reef (some say a U-boat) in the 1940s.

A tug, the Sir Charles Elliott, went to her aid but it sank, too.

An arch of whale bones marks the grave of the two crewmen who led the rescue attempt, trying in vain to secure a line from the ship to the shore.

Every now and then the wreck of their tug can be seen above the waves.

At Cape Frio, thousands of seals provide light relief. Their noise is deafening, their smell overwhelming, but their antics draw you in.

The surf is full of writhing bodies.

At the water’s edge, the occasional rock twitches, rolls over and throws itself into the sea.

We follow the coastline for miles.

Ours are the only tire marks, soon to be erased by the sand.

Ghost crabs scuttle into the waves; terns swoop over the surf; a jackal flops, seemingly exhausted, onto the shore.

Little Game

When it comes to watching wildlife, the Skeleton Coast isn’t about big game.

Guides focus on small mammals, birds and insects and the stories of how they survive.

With ocean fogs the only moisture supply, creatures conserve what they can.

Black-backed jackals lick humidity from stones.

Desert beetles channel droplets along their backs and into their mouths.

Tok-tokkie beetles pair up, then climb on top of one another, taking it in turns to provide shade.

Without compass or Sat Nav, Bariar drives us on a convoluted route back into the desert.

He suggests I look out the window for “unexpected stones” — indicators to turn left or right or double back a touch.

They’re meant to keep vehicles on course and not flatten tracts of this delicate ecosystem.

Hear The Dunes Roar

We arrive at the legendary “roaring” dunes, climb to the top and slide down on our butts.

I know the fearsome rumble comes from air trapped between grains of sand, but I still glance up convinced there are low-flying jets overhead.

The next couple of days are spent hiking through gorges, tracking desert-adapted elephants and exploring a wilderness that never seems to end.

What looks like wasteland to me is, to the Himba people, home.

They’re the last of Namibia’s nomadic pastoralists: they grow nothing and eat only meat.

The women braid their hair and scrub their bodies with ocher to keep clean. Their skin gleams like polished copper in the sun.

One morning, we visit their camp.

The trip is laid on for tourists, but when it’s over we head to the home of one of the guides on the tour.

His mother offers me a necklace of porcupine quills as young girls sit and smile.

Eventually they overcome their shyness and get up to sing.

As I leave, I notice a small boy, eyeing me from the top of a dune.

Keen to impress, he somersaults over the top and falls flat on his face in the sand.

He gets up, shakes himself down and laughs.

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Black King in Bolivia after 500 Years

from kingjohn on 12/11/2013 09:27 PM

Julio Pinedo is the first Afro-Bolivian king in 500 years. Bolivia has a king. And he is not one of indigenous descent, but surprisingly, African. Julio Pinedo—one of the many Afro-Bolivians who make a living growing coca—found out a few years ago that he is a direct descendant of Bonifaz, a tribal king from Central Africa. Now, he’s the country’s first Afro-Bolivian king in 500 years.  “I had no idea about my royal lineage,” he says, humbly. “I knew my ancestors were, like other Africans, brought to work in the Bolivian gold and silver mines of Potosí. But because of the weather—it was too cold for the Africans to stay there—the Spaniards realized that they were losing slaves and had to move the ‘Afros’ to a place where the climate was friendlier.” It was his great-grandfather who moved from the mines to the coca fields in Los Yungas region. There, others recognized his royal lineage but protected his identity from the patrons. That is until a secret crowning of Julio’s grandfather, “Bonifacio I,” in 1932. His grandfather, who was then leading the personnel at a country estate, raised King Julio “Bonifacio” Pinedo. Years later, his crowning was not only a surprise for him as it was for many to find out that Afro-Latinos live in Bolivia. So then, in what some label as a political move to make the world aware of the Afro-Bolivian presence, the community decided to go big and crown him at a ceremony in the country’s capital, La Paz, in December 2007. The dances, chants and drums of their ‘Saya’ music, inundated the city for a whole morning. “It was a glorious day,” the shy and silent King recalls from the small village of Mururata. But this royal picture is not as glossy as it seems.  http://kwekudee-tripdownmemorylane.blogspot.com/2012/12/african-descendants-in-bolivia-afro.html

Julio Pinedo is the first Afro-Bolivian king in 500 years. Bolivia has a king. And he is not one of indigenous descent, but surprisingly, African. Julio Pinedo—one of the many Afro-Bolivians who make a living growing coca—found out a few years ago that he is a direct descendant of Bonifaz, a tribal king from Central Africa. Now, he’s the country’s first Afro-Bolivian king in 500 years.
“I had no idea about my royal lineage,” he says, humbly. “I knew my ancestors were, like other Africans, brought to work in the Bolivian gold and silver mines of Potosí. But because of the weather—it was too cold for the Africans to stay there—the Spaniards realized that they were losing slaves and had to move the ‘Afros’ to a place where the climate was friendlier.”
It was his great-grandfather who moved from the mines to the coca fields in Los Yungas region. There, others recognized his royal lineage but protected his identity from the patrons. That is until a secret crowning of Julio’s grandfather, “Bonifacio I,” in 1932. His grandfather, who was then leading the personnel at a country estate, raised King Julio “Bonifacio” Pinedo.
Years later, his crowning was not only a surprise for him as it was for many to find out that Afro-Latinos live in Bolivia.
So then, in what some label as a political move to make the world aware of the Afro-Bolivian presence, the community decided to go big and crown him at a ceremony in the country’s capital, La Paz, in December 2007. The dances, chants and drums of their ‘Saya’ music, inundated the city for a whole morning. “It was a glorious day,” the shy and silent King recalls from the small village of Mururata.

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Simple Things That Kills Relationship

from admin on 12/06/2013 05:08 PM

 1. Skipping me-time. Among un couples, more people point to a lack of privacy or time for themselves as the reason (11.5%) than they do to their sex lives (6%).

 2. Staying mum on “minor” annoyances. A lot of couples sweep little annoyances and pet peeves under the rug. Over time, though, small everyday irritations can add up and put a relationship on life support.

 3. Holding on to feelings about exes. Expending energy on a past love can be deadly. Men and women who say, “I don’t feel much of anything for my ex” are more likely to be in their present relationship.

 4. Keeping old secrets, even small ones. Ninety percent of people in relationships say they “never” feel that their partners aren’t completely truthful about their past.

 5. Sparing little signs of affection or approval. Too many couples wait for special occasions, such as birthdays, anniversaries, or Hallmark-type holidays, to express loving feelings to one another. Sometimes a goodbye peck on the cheek or a thoughtful compliment is all it takes to make a partner feel loved and appreciated.

 6. Spending too much or too little time with the parents. Married couples are 20% less likely to divorce when a man feels close to his mother-in-law. When women feel close to their in-laws, however, the couple is 20% more likely to divorce.

 7. Seeing the glass half empty. Many couples only talk about what’s going wrong in their relationships. But couples that also focus on what’s working well—on the glass half full—are much happier over time than those who purely try to “fix” their problems.

Finally, countless couples make the mistake of assuming they know everything about one another. Unlike when they were first dating, they cease asking questions and learning more about each other. Such loss of curiosity, like other overlooked relationship killers, can be lethal.

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6 Mistakes Men Make in Approaching Women

from admin on 12/06/2013 04:58 PM

Wome are great friends to men when you know how to make it with them, how t create a friendly environment for fun and conversations

 Once you have spotted the right chick, you know half the battle is won if she looks at you and smiles. But it’s not as easy as it sounds here. Sometimes, the alcohol takes over our minds and sometimes, the nerves get the better (or worse) of us. Whatever the case might be, the end result is terrible: she avoids eye contact, ignores you, or worse still, calls her friend/boyfriend to beat you up. We surely want you to go back with the girl instead of a blue-black. Avoid these mistakes to have better luck next time.

Approaching Her At The Wrong Place

Get this clear, friends: The whole world is NOT your playground. There won’t be placards, but there are specific pick-up zones. If you think you can make a woman swoon over your biceps at the gym, chances are she won’t even want to look at them, especially if you try hard. Your safest bet is at a friend’s party, or a bar, or someplace where conversation can happen easily. All might be fair in war, but definitely not in love.

Starting Out On The Defensive

Yes, it’s important to strategise in most cases, but not this. If you are already too worried about the aftermath and start out on a super defensive note, you won’t come across as a friendly guy. And trust me, women like men who are easy to hang out with and who can talk about random things with as much ease as they would with their guy friends. Don’t try and play seduction games unless you can match George Clooney standards. Let tricks take a backseat and just go there to have some fun.

When You’re Too Drunk

You might be as charming as James Bond after downing a couple of whiskeys, but no woman wants to handle a man who might have to make 10 loo visits to throw up, or keep him from getting into fights. Every woman likes a man who is in control and can take care of her too. Approaching her with bloodshot eyes and a slurring tongue is a complete no-no, Mr Devdas!

Using Pick-up Lines

My patent line was: “Is your name Gillette? Cos you’re the best a man can get.” It worked on a few, but mostly failed. So, I am talking from experience and even the girls in MXP agreed that pick-up lines don’t work any more, unless you can innovate to that extent. A standard opening line equals clear-cut turnoff. Why? Because it shows you lack confidence, and that you’ve literally spent time Googling borrowed lines. A simple hello will never go out of fashion.

The Charm-Her-Friend Method

It might have worked in 90s Bollywood, but this century is a different ballgame altogether. Your attention should be on only woman: the one you’re interested in. Women don’t care about the convoluted logistics of He’s-trying-to-charm-my-friend-so-that-he-can-get-me. She will simply think you’re interested in her friend and there you stand—nowhere.

Being Too Touchy

If you want to land in her bedroom and not behind the bars, please keep those hands off her in the first meeting. Go with the flow and see how she responds to you. If she genuinely shows interest and touches your hand slightly, return the favour (definitely not by spanking her rear). Let it build up slow and steady. Also, kindly avoid public space to show any physical affection. You might look creepy to others

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64-Year-Old American Has Now Been Arrested 1267 Times

from admin on 12/04/2013 08:22 PM


The man who seem to have made homes out of American prisons and is now regarded as world’s most arrested man is back behind bars.

 

Henry Earl, who celebrated his 64th birthday in custody, as he has done for the past three years, has been arrested in Lexington, Kentucky, again.

 

Earl – who has his own Wikipedia entry and also has websites dedicated to his ever-increasing tally – has been arrested 1267 over the past four decades, The Smoking Gun reported.

 

“He is somewhat of a superstar in his own little world,” Fayette County Detention Centre Officer John Casey told ABC News in the US.

 

Earl’s latest arrest was for being drunk outside a fast food venue in Lexington. He was taken to Fayette County Detention Centre, where he is almost certainly the most well-known of offenders

 

Earl was first arrested at the age of 20 in Fayette County, Kentucky, in July 1970, for carrying a concealed weapon. He was arrested a further 33 more times in the seventies.

 

His arrests increased to 230 in the eighties, most for being drunk and being drunk and disorderly.

 

In the nineties Earl’s arrests increased, mainly because he would spend two days in custody, and reoffend on being released.

 He was arrested for the 1000th time in September 2008, a year which saw him put behind bars 35 times.

 

Now judges in Fayette County detain Earl for longer periods in jail – two to three months for each conviction.

 

Earl, who has used the alias “James Brown,” has spent a total of nearly 6000 days – nearly 6 and-a-half years – in custody.

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10 Tips on Dealing With Conflicts

from admin on 12/01/2013 09:59 PM

Humans always have issues in Life it is eaither witht themselves or with the second or third party , but it takes some great  ideals to get over it before it escalates.Here are tips on handling it

1. Stop, take a deep breath and write down a BPO ahead of time before you try to resolve the conflict. BPO stands for “Best Possible Outcome.” If you don’t envision the outcome that you want, it’s hard to manifest it… or something better.

2. Be prepared to negotiate and heed Lao Tzu’s advice: “In conflict, be fair and generous.” Just remember that when resolving a conflict, you sometimes you need to compromise, so think ahead before you sit down and talk to the other person.

3. Pursuant to tip number 2 above, find common ground without forcing change.

4. Don’t start sentences with an accusing “you” as in, “You did this and you did that…”; instead say something like, “To me, what seems to have happened is…” or “The way it looks to me is…”

5. Maintain a sense of dignity and respect between you, and let the other person save face whenever possible. Though it is sometimes difficult, think of this as part of your effort to embody that great piece of advice given to us by Gandhi: “Be the change you wish to see…”

6. Practice good listening. Be fully present. Try your best not to form answers and defenses in your mind before the other person is finished speaking.
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7. Take Stephen Covey’s excellent advice from his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”

8. Don’t make general sweeping statements. Support your opinions and feelings with facts or examples of specific behavior.

9. When describing the issue you want to discuss, end with a question. In the book, Crucial Confrontations, the authors suggest that you ask a simple diagnostic question like “What happened?” and make it an honest inquiry rather than a veiled threat or accusation like “What’s wrong with you?”

10. Don’t bring up the past. Instead, start with a clean slate. See tip number 1 – it helps if you bring a sense of optimism, possibility and future-focus to the conversation

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Re: 5 Great things about Marcus Garvey

from kingjohn on 11/28/2013 10:06 PM

What a great man who inspired a generation

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5 Great things about Marcus Garvey

from admin on 11/28/2013 09:26 PM


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He Led the Largest and Most Influential Movement to Advance Black People’s Interests in the World

Marcus Garvey founded the Universal Negro Improvement Association (UNIA), “the most dynamic mass movement across territorial borders among the African peoples [during] the 20th century.” According to international.ucla.edu: ”By the early 1920s the UNIA could count branches in almost every Caribbean, [latin America], and sub-Saharan African country  with membership swelling to 8 million.”

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He Launched the Largest Black Economic Development Campaign

More than just an activist, Marcus Garvey also had the business acumen to create financial solutions for the global Black community. According to blackbusinessnetwork.com: “Marcus Garvey’s built huge businesses (nationwide and international), encouraged entrepreneurship, and got millions of black people buying from Black-owned business.” Not only did Mr. Garvey start businesses that employed thousands of black people, but he would also offer stock in the companies, promoting black ownership and generating additional wealth for the community.


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Founded Largest Black Media Empire to Date

Marcus Garvey was revolutionary not only because of his ideas, but also because of his ability to communicate them to a large number of people. Mr. Garvey published several periodicals and newspapers, most notably The Negro World, Blackman and The Black Man. According to blackbusinessnetwork.com: ” [The Negro World] Eventually reaching a circulation of five hundred thousand, the newspaper was printed in several languages. It contained a page specifically for women readers, documented international events related to people of African ancestry, and was distributed throughout the African diaspora until publication ceased in 1933. His publications directly influenced the minds of many Black leaders to follow.”

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He Inspired Every Black Freedom Fighter of The 20th Century

One measure of the influence of Marcus Garvey’s philosophy and accomplishments is the impact on the leaders directly influenced and inspired by him. Mr. Garvey has inspired every major black movement of the 20th century, both in Africa and the Americas. Notable followers of Garvey’s ideology include: Minister Louis Farrakhan, President Nnamdi Azikiwe, Elijah Muhammad, President Kwame Nkrumah,  Kwame Toure, President Jomo Kenyatta, President Nelson Mandela,  President Patrice Lumumba, President Julius Nyerere, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr. They are only a few examples of leaders both on the African continent and in the United States who credit Marcus Garvey’s philosophy and accomplishments as their inspiration.


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He Inspired the Birth of Many Nations

Marcus Garvey’s work and philosophy has been so transformational, that it is directly responsible for many African nations’ independence from European colonizers. Ghana, Kenya, Nigeria, Tanzania and most of the CARICOM member states can attribute their independence, in part, to the teachings of Marcus Garvey. According to blackbusinessnetwork.com: “Inspired by his ideas, over 30 African countries have declared their freedom, and many sport Mr. Garvey’s red, black and green colors in their flag,” this includes Ghana, the first sub-Saharan nation to gain independence, which honors Marcus Garvey with the black star in its flag.

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