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Tips to getting your right partner

from admin on 09/24/2013 03:53 PM

It's hard to use the term 'soul mate' without feeling like you should be wearing a cape and meditating over a crystal.

We've considered the concept extensively both independently and together over Gchat and we are of the same mind on the matter: Not only do soul mates exist but all of us have more than one soul mate out there. And to quote 'Annie' (kind of), 'A life without soul mates is like a night without stars' a very dark night.

But don't think because you are single that you've been left out of the soul mate phenomenon. It's limiting to think that merging with your other half must be romantic in nature. Soul mates can be lovers, friends, family members or even pets.

While the universe might help us out in our quest to find them, it's up to us to make sure we connect with them. Soul mate relationships seem so meant to be that it's hard to imagine ever not knowing that person once you do. But just to be safe, below are some tips for making sure your soul mates in life don't pass you by.

Instant recognition Ami met her soul mate best friend 16 years ago on the first week of college when she made a snarky joke and her friend was the only person who laughed. One thing that's true of all soul mates, whether they're romantic or platonic, is that they will understand you better than anyone else. This feeling of mutual understanding often occurs almost instantly, and it only gets deeper and truer as you get to know each other better. What starts as a shared laugh at a snarky joke could lead to a lifetime of mutual laughter. Pay attention to those little moments of instant connection with people-you never know where they might take you!

Coincidences surround you When you're spending time with your soul mate, you'll notice that the world is like a highway just for you. There will be road signs guiding you on your route. There will be coincidences everywhere. If you say, 'I love so-and-so song!' You'll be at a coffee shop one hour later and that song as obscure as it may be will be playing. If you're talking about your mutual love of '90210,' you'll sit down to dinner at a restaurant and notice that the dude sitting next to you is wearing a '90210″ sweatshirt. If you're playing Trivial Pursuit, you'll pull out the same card two times in a row. These are all real-life examples, by the way. But you get the point: the universe is sending you little affirmations that the two of you are meant to be playing Trivial Pursuit together for the rest of eternity. Don't ignore the road signs.

A gut instinct Many couples who have been married for decades describe a sense of knowing their partner was 'the one' the moment they met, but this feeling can take other forms as well. You might just feel a little wave of intensity, or your heart might beat a little faster when you meet your future soul mate pet at a shelter. Don't ignore those gut feelings.

A feeling of urgency or magnetism When you're in the vicinity of a soul mate, you will probably feel drawn to them or pulled toward them. You might feel a sense of urgency, like 'I must talk to that person RIGHT NOW.' It's easy to toss these feelings aside when they come out of nowhere or don't seem to make sense, but do us a favor, OK? Even if it goes against all logic, act on those instincts. When Winona's friend saw her soul mate walking into an art gallery, she found herself instantly transfixed on him. Though she's usually extremely shy, she followed him in and eventually asked him out. In general, when the universe nudges you down a path, follow it.

You're in the wrong place at the wrong time, to be in the right place at the right time Soul mate meetings often start with some kind of hiccup in your daily routine, or something going wrong, or your best laid plans falling apart. When you look back though, you'll realize all that perceived inconvenience was totally meant to be. Winona was so upset when she didn't get into a writing class she wanted, but when she begrudgingly signed up for a different class, she ended up sitting by the person who would become her soul mate BFF. A friend of Ami's met her current boyfriend when her usual bus stop was closed and she was forced to get on at a different station. The fact is, sometimes we have to take a convoluted, slightly annoying path to meet the people we're supposed to meet. But it's always worth it in the end.

Premonition Often times, you'll have a premonition of meeting your soul mate before you do in the form of a dream or a déjà vu type of sensation. A friend of Winona's actually wrote a journal entry describing her ideal guy-physical and personality traits-and ended up meeting him two days later. And Ami knows someone who had a dream about her future boyfriend years before they met describing him by name, appearance and the circumstances of their meeting. If you're not into psychic mumbo jumbo, that's fine, but you may find yourself having some kind feeling like you've known this person forever

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Is silence good or harmful in relationships

from kingjohn on 09/22/2013 06:01 PM

DEAFENING SILENCE. And not just silence for a minute or two- but silence that stretches far beyond those moments in which you take a breath and/or swallow your bite of food and then continue your conversation.

#1 It is Okay to Run out of material. When you get to a point in your relationship/marriage where conversation is not forced and you simply feel comfortable enjoying the ability to be together in the same space and  enjoying eachother’s quiet  energy, that is a GOOD THING.

#3  Remember there is good and bad silence. Being in the same room on your  devices–  can be loud ignoring silence whereas good silence can be simply being in the moment  in nature, on the couch watching TV or just being together
It is sometimes very inimical to relationships because at times the fellow feels neglected or not cared for when the partner keeps so silent about issues arising in the relationship. So it is always good for a mutual resolution of conflicts  and make sure everyone expresses their views and their views respected .

When you dreams dream big as big as the occean

10 SIGNS IT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP IT IS A SEX MATE.

from Justice on 09/22/2013 12:14 PM

1.Anytime you see each other it is only to have sex: So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.

2.Only comes over at night: They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.

3.Doesn't want to go out anywhere : Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex

4.Never talks about family and friends : Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.It is not a concern about your relationship with your siblings  or your family no affcetion for them in this case there is no concern for each other these is a pure sign of a sex mate.

5.Sexy phone caall and Sms o you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.Always demanding that you dress nude or send send nude pics as messages . this is really dangerous to the afftection in the relationship , sincere friends talk something more deep than this.

6. Meeting only where sex can take place nly going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.No time for fun time or a quiet place to talk to each other .Friends most times need to be in cool places to share their affection for one another but if your visits is regulary in hotels or apartments be mindful it might just be your sex mate.
7. You don't eat together; this is also one of the things sex mates do not in common. they do not mind walking you out right after you have satisfied them sexually.
8. Avvoiding each other in public :You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away.They lack passion for you so they feel you will not represent them in public they always play cool when you meet in public .They feel you are not their type so you are only their for the wrong purpose  It’s Just Sex.
9.No time always; Always saying I am busy with work, with school or whatever. No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.So that both of you can be with one another.
10.There is no care :If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.

It pays to be good and It is more blessed to give than to recieve

A helpless man and his wife

from Justice on 09/22/2013 11:51 AM

It pays to be good and It is more blessed to give than to recieve

What can you cal this ?

from Justice on 09/22/2013 11:43 AM

  What can youy call this image , is a human, a  spirit  or a a soul....

It pays to be good and It is more blessed to give than to recieve

12 common gramatical errors nearly everyone makes

from admin on 09/21/2013 08:39 PM

1. Affect vs. effect. The easiest way to remember the difference between the two is affect means “to influence.” So if you’re going to influence something, you will have an affect. If it’s the result of something, it’s an effect.
2. The Oxford comma. In a series of three or more terms, you should use what’s referred to as the Oxford comma. This means you should have a comma before the word “and” in a list. For instance: The American flag is red, white, and blue. Many people debate this, but I’m a believer in it because there are times when you don’t have the extra comma and the sentence doesn’t make sense. I prefer to err on the side of having the Oxford in there.
3. Commas, in general. And speaking of commas, slow down when you’re writing and read your copy out loud. You don’t want to make this mistake: Let’s eat grandma vs. let’s eat, grandma. Poor grandma will be eaten if you forget the comma.
4. Their, they’re, and there. You’d think everyone learned this rule in fourth grade, but it’s a very common mistake. Use “there” when referring to a location, “their” to indication possession, and “they’re” when you mean to say “they are.”
5. Care less. The dismissive “I could care less” you hear all the time is incorrect. If you could care less, that means there is more you could care less about the topic. Most people omit the “not” in that phrase. It should be, “I couldn’t care less.”
6. Irregardless. This word doesn’t exist. It should be regardless.
7. Nauseous. How many times have you said you felt nauseous? This is incorrect. You feel nauseated. Nauseous means something is sickening to contemplate.
8. Your and you’re. Another mistake you see in people’s social media profiles and in the content they create is not correctly using “your” and “you’re.” If you’re meaning to say “you are,” the correct word is “you’re” (like at the beginning of this sentence). Otherwise the word is “your.”
9. Fewer vs. less. Another common mistake, “less” refers to quantity and “fewer” to a number. For instance, Facebook has fewer than 5,000 employees.
10. Quotation marks. Among great debate, people ask all the time whether or not punctuation belongs inside or outside quotation marks. It belongs inside.
11. More than vs. over. I’m pretty sure the advertising agency created this grammatical error. Instead of saying, “We had more than 50 percent growth” in ad copy, “over” allows for more space. So they say, “We had over 50 percent growth.” Drives. Me. Crazy.
12. Me vs. I. I was reading something by a big muckety muck the other day and the copy read, “This year has brought a big personal development for my wife and I…” No, no, no! If you were going to say that without the mention of your wife, you wouldn’t say, “This year has brought a big personal development for I.” You would say “me.” So this year has brought a big personal development for my wife and me.

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Re: 10 Things that Africans was great in before slavery and colonialisation

from admin on 09/20/2013 04:31 PM

These are men or people who others claim they brought light to .What does this truth reveal to you it means they have had the candles centuries ago, so if  you can invent the candle will you look for light or the flame to put it on...

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10 Things that Africans was great in before slavery and colonialisation

from admin on 09/20/2013 04:28 PM

1.Education

Blacks built the first universities in the world. In particular,  the University of Tombouctou, also called  Timbuktu, which is in Mali, was considered the oldest thriving university in the world. Students came from Europe, the Middle East, Asia and all over the world and contains lots of ancients scripts.

2.Astronomy Several ancient African cultures made discoveries in astronomy. Egyptians unfathomed the movement of the sun and constellations and the cycles of the moon long before any other region of the world. The Egyptians inspired the modern calendar. There are evidence that shows they divided the year into 12 parts and developed a yearlong calendar system containing 365 ¼ days

3.Writing

The ancient Egyptians, a primarily black civilization, started writing in about 3500 B.C. or 5,500 years ago. The Sumerian of Mesopotamians and ancient Egyptians were the first known in history to establish communication through writing. Other Asian and European cultures began writing thousands of years later.They used symbols to represent letters  and images also.

4.Metallurgy and Tools

The first advances in metallurgy and tool-making were made by black people all across ancient Africa. They made metal chisels, saws, copper and iron tools, weapons, nails, glue, and carbon steel and bronze weapons.

Tanzania, Rwanda and Uganda made advances between 1,500 and 2,000 years ago, which surpassed those of the Europeans at that time. Ancient Tanzanian furnaces could reach 1,800 degrees Celsius — 200 to 400 degrees warmer than those of the Romans. Africans have goldsmiths and blacksmiths who believe in the gods who own metals and they were very good at steel works.

5.Architecture and engineering

Black people were the first to use the sciences of architecture and engineering, building some of the greatest and longest-standing structures ever seen. The Egyptians baffled the world by building more than 80 pyramids, with the largest, the Great Pyramid of Giza, covering 13 acres and made of 2.25 million blocks of stone. The Giza pyramid was built around 2580 B.C. and is still standing strong today.

6.Medicine/Doctors

Before the European invasion of Africa, black people had developed a medical system based on plants and herbs to cure illnesses. Egypt,  Southern Africa, West Africa and parts of East Africa were more advanced in medicine than Europe at the time. They used plants with salicylic acid for pain, kaolin for diarrhea, and other extracts to kill bacteria.

The achievements by doctors in ancient Egypt were incredible. Findings obtained by archaeologists have produced evidence that in 3000 B.C., the Egyptians performed successful brain surgeries.

7.Navigation

Black people were the first to navigate the ocean. There is evidence that ancient Africans sailed to South America and Asia hundreds of years before Europeans.

Shipbuilders in the Mali and Songhai empires built boats 100-feet long and 13-feet wide that could carry up to 80 tons of cargo.

8.Civilizations

It is well established that black people introduced civilization to the world. Egypt is the best known example, but there are many others.  Africans built powerful, wealthy and thriving empires such as Nubia, Kush, Axum, Ghana, Mali, and Songhai.

In Asia, black people were instrumental in building civilizations in Mesopotamia, the Indus Kush Valley, and China. There is also evidence that the Olmecs of Mexico were significantly influenced by West African civilizations.

9.Mathematics

Black people were the first to develop mathematics in Africa 37,000 years ago, as it was the first method of counting. Africans in the region known as modern-day Egypt, scripted textbooks about math that included division, multiplication, algebraic equations, fractions and geometric formulas to calculate the area and volume of shapes.

10.

Business/Economics

The richest man to ever live was a black man named Mansa Musa. Musa, who was an emperor of the great African empire Mali from 1312 to 1337, was one of the most influential leaders the world has ever known.

Mastering commerce and trade, Musa accumulated an estimated $400 billion during his reign, according to a new inflation-adjusted list by Forbes.com, making him the richest man in the history of the world.

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6 Types of Relationship Astrological View

from admin on 09/19/2013 11:52 PM

Relationships is a vital issue in the life of humans, it creates a noble avenue for our growth and succes in life, and there are many key things we need to know about it especially when we know them it paves way for our success in affairs with others. The types are .

Aries – Libra Duality

The Aries – Libra duality is one of the most passionate and strongest we can find. Both signs are ruled by sexual planets (Venus and Mars) and they are very sensual.  This duality usually exists in relationships that have as the most important factors passion and intimacy. Although love is something important there are also some important imbalances that they may create severe problems in a couple’s life. The “I” and “You” are usually in conflict and someone takes more than he gives and the other usually remains unsatisfied. This dissatisfaction may lead to power struggles between the couple and severe conflicts. The person with the strong ego has usually to lower his demands and the person who is more passive needs to learn to ask and demand more for himself. This is not something that happens in a day and it may need a cognitive behavioral

Taurus – Scorpio Duality

Sensuality and extreme passions are the greatest characteristics of this duality. The couple usually has common needs and it wants to feel well not only emotionally but also financially. There is great stability in this relationship and they can sustain their union even when luck is not with them and they do not get the support from the others. It is also a duality that makes  couples to last the test of time and live together for the rest of their life. The problem in this couple is sometimes the rigidness and the importance it gives to materials such as money. They may feel very insecure and unhappy during periods their financial situation is not going well.  There is also sometimes a problem with “emotional suffocation”, the couple has a deep insecurity and the partners may feel not well giving each other the proper freedom, something that becomes tiresome later on.

Gemini – Sagittarius Duality

This duality brings joy and fascination to the couple. It usually creates a relationship with many interests and with the need to explore and discover many things within their relationship.  This duality is very joyful and the relationship is often verbal and needs to share its happiness with the environment. The problem is usually the development of the emotion because sometimes people are more friends than a romantic couple. Also the problem with this relationship is that it is difficult to last as the couple usually feels not very connected. On the other hand this type of duality is positive when the people want to have a relationship which will have as a result their development of their personality. The problem is that sometimes a person in the couple is not highly motivated for the relationship and feels he/she just has a good time with someone. Infidelity is finally another major problem.

Cancer – Capricorn Duality

This duality is full of emotions but also disturbances. It is the duality of the usual phenomenon which one is usually more in love from the other. On the other hand it gives a mother – child or father – child balance in the relationship that it is useful for people that have age difference. Emotionally it may be a very fruitful relationship but usually has lots of obstacles as a result of fate. Sometimes the couple is isolated from the others and inhibited something that may create important problems especially when the relationship needs people to breathe and be developed because it is an organism that has to live and communicate in a specific environment.

Astrology puts humans in these classes and tends to prove that these classes behave in diverse ways and have different gifts and weaknesses.

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Secrets of spectacular sex

from admin on 09/18/2013 07:31 PM

 

Everyone wants better sex, but many of us have the wrong idea about how to make it happen. Here are the seven secrets to achieving a spectacular sex life.

One, the first thing we need to understand is that, despite what television, movies and videos say, sex is an experience, not a performance. When we’re too self-conscious about how we’re doing it, we can’t enjoy what we’re doing or who we’re doing it with.

We need to stop imagining that during sex we’re being rated for our skills. The truth is that technique is much less important than the connection we have with the other person. The better the connection, the better the sex, regardless of our technique or lack thereof.

Two, sex is a dance in which both partners must take turns leading and following. Listening is the key, as knows when to take the initiative and when to let go of control. The more willing we are to participate in the dance, the better the sex will be.

Three, comfort is everything. Feeling a bit vulnerable during sex can be exciting, but feeling too vulnerable can ruin an otherwise potentially good sexual experience. It’s crucial that each partner make a sincere effort to put the other person at ease so that both are in the mood for great sex.

The key to comfort is mutual respect. Whether it’s a one-off encounter with no strings attached or a long-term, meaningful relationship, respecting each-other and valuing each-other as human beings will make sex more comfortable, and therefore more enjoyable

Four, like most things, sex is better with a sense of humor. When we can laugh at our awkward, clumsy moments, our missteps and ungainliness, and when we don’t judge our partner for theirs, we become more endearing to each-other and sex becomes sweeter and a lot less stressful.

Five, good sex is all about communication. We need to be clear with the other person about what we like and don’t like, what we want and don’t want. Otherwise, we’re apt to be frustrated or irritated.

Being attracted to each-other doesn’t mean that we can read each-other’s minds. Expressing our likes and dislikes is part of creating the connection that leads to a more enjoyable sexual experience.

Six, the best sex is a balance between being open to new experiences and true to ourselves. It’s great to try new things, or at least consider them, but we’re abandoning ourselves if we go along with something that feels wrong. We should never do anything in sex — including the choice to have sex — if it doesn’t feel like the right thing to do.

It’s great to be adventurous in sex. It’s one of the few ways that we can abandon ourselves in the moment and let go of our “shoulds” and our inhibitions. The right partner and lots of trust and respect makes this possible. Still, even with the best partner, we need to heed our inner wisdom and know our limits. Good sex is about respecting our partner and being true to ourselves.
  Sex is a vital thing in relationship and it breeds compactibility in friends

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